Things That Bothered Me In My 20s That Don’t So Much In My 30s.

As I near the end of my 30s, I realize a lot of things that invoked ire in my 20s are no big deal now.  Here’s my top three:

1.  Friends canceling plans last minute.  Hey, chances are I didn’t feel like going anyway.  Once I’m comfy and in my pjs, you weren’t getting me out anyway. . .

2. Not being liked by everyone.  I’m secure in myself. Take it or leave it. Not all personalities integrate and get along.  If you don’t like me, that’s ok.  I’m blessed with enough friends and have more important things to worry about.

3. Being excluded from weddings, showers, vacation, general plans, etc. If it saved me money, or having to “ooh” and “ahh” for no good reason, then thank you! Besides, if I really was meant to be there, I’d weasel my way in somehow.